A relationship exist through a factor i.e. trust. We human beings always expect the persons with whom we make a bond they should be trustworthy because we can rely on them. We may be very open minded but we want that our closed persons should be faithful so that we can share anything with them without any fear. Their action should be in a positive direction such that our sharing matter should not be disclosed or they can never tarnish our image. In other way, we want that our relationship should based on pure trust.
Now the first point is that why do we need trust in a relationship? Is it essential to make the relationship trustworthy? Let’s discuss it clearly. Basically, we people think that our close relationship should be true one if is based or trust. We fear that an untrusted person can pose threat to us as there may be chance of discloser about our private thing which we have shared with him/her. This fear of uncertainty digs its root in our belief such that suspicion arises rapidly. Once a relationship comes under doubt, then that relationship is started to crumble so that the beautiful bond broken very quickly.
To make a relation strong it is not so easy. A beautiful relationship is built with trust, belief, love, care, dedication and sacrifice. It is not made within few minutes or with every person. We mixed with people, study them, observe them and slowly we get started to trust that person. Once we get confident that we can trust that person(s) without hesitation then in the next phase we share feeling with each other. Sometimes the negative thinking of disbelief may arise but if both the sides are positive then disbelief get away and the relationship continue further.
But it is observed that many people are unable to make a strong relationship whereas some people make the relationship very solid one. All we are human being having same amount of neurons in our brain. As once, the great Vivekananda had told that all the human being posses’ equal potentiality in brain and the difference is how much we are utilizing of it. That means all human beings’ brains are strong in thinking. Then why everybody can not make or sustain a strong relationship? Undoubtly the prime factor is lack of trust or faith upon those persons with whom we have made the relationship.
Yes, all can not trust others very easily. It may happen that some people do not have confidence in their belief. They may think that what is the guarantee of the persons in the relationship will be true one! Who knows they may disclose my shared facts to others! When suspect factor arises then crack appears in the relationship and it is ended. Actually some people have disbelief in their relationship because they might have cheated by people in previous relationship. In some cases it might have occurred multiple times. So they can not belief others easily due to their bad experience and incidents in life.
But in a positive side, we should trust the persons wholeheartedly if we think our relationship is true one. If we are true in our thought and relationship then we may suffer but our relationship can not be disrespected one. We are human beings, we can not study all people thoroughly but keeping certain positive thinking in mind, if we nurture our relationship then definitely our relationship will be a strong one. We have to keep trust on those persons with whom we can think to make a smooth and healthy relationship. Whose trust is that much strong, his/her relationship becomes that high and concrete.
