When someone feels that his/her sentiments is being tarnished by any other person’s activities through physically/mentally then hurt arises in the mind of the person. Actually, when anybody unexpectedly faces those feelings through which he/she mentally does not feel comfort, that is known as hurt. One can mentally hurt or physically hurt but mentally hurt does not heal up quickly.
As we are social animals, we always want to be with persons/environments which provide some way of companion so that we can share our moments with them. Keeping this thing in mind, a person tries to open himself/herself in certain/every respect of sphere with that companion. He/she feels comfort that the person with whom he spares his moments/thoughts/activities are accepted in a positive way. He does not feel outside/awkward with the persons/environments which creates a sporting life path.
Some people mix with the person showing that they are actually with his/her sphere in turn the person believes them wholeheartedly. He does not smell any negativity with their activities. But, in some point of time, those people hurt his/her sentiments. One can hurt a person unintentionally/intentionally. If one does not know but his activities make another person to get hurt can be pardoned because it is not intentional. It is seen that a genuine person after knowing his mistake that another person has been hurt, tries to apologize physically as well as mentally.
But, there are many people who deliberately hurt others. They do not bother that their deeds hurt the sentiment of other persons. Rather they get sadistic pleasure by seeing a person is being hurt. They do not want to think a bit when a person get hurt, how much mental agony he/she suffers! Sometimes, simple people who are innocent,without their faults get hurt by those people. The person who is hurt finds it difficult to swallow up the pain and humility. He/she can not express is pain and mental stigma to others. As the person is innocent, the pain becomes unbearable for him/her.
One can not do well for someone. It is alright. But to hurt other’s sentiments is not a positive attitude. If we do not able to give happiness to others, we do not have any rights to hurt other’s sentiments. The pain of getting hurt can be known by a person who actually hurt. The trauma of pain, solitude ad disturbances in mind after getting hurt is too difficult to tackle. Therefore, we should not hurt others for our sadistic pleasure.
