People say, whatever you have lost, everything can be normal in the passing time. It can never be in every case. We can discuss around some of the things relating to this matter in reality and practically. Suppose, a businessman losses money in his business, he can recover his loss money once again with the passing times. It is possible because in the business, loss and earn is as usual part.
Suppose, in the exam one did not get success, he can get success in the next try or after the next try. So failure can be recovered in the passing time. Suppose, you have a close friend and one day he left you forever due to misunderstanding, in the passing time, you can get another friend who is better than your previous friend.
Suppose, your vehicle has been stolen, you can buy another vehicle one day. If your house has been destroyed in the natural calamity, you can again rebuild a house. It may not be easy but you can build another house. That means, there are many things which you can again recover after you loss it. The recovery is possible.
But one thing which cannot be recovered in life time once you lost your mother. The mother to whom we call maa, maiya, mata, amma, aai is the epitome of love and solace. Ofcouse, the first two persons who remain supreme in your life are your father and mother because they bring you to this world. The role of father is very important in anybody’s life. He is the standing source. So his role can never be underestimated.
But, the role of mother is totally different and unique. She keeps you in her womb for ten months by bearing all the pain. She shows you the light of this world. She sacrifices all her happiness for her children. She never expects anything for you. Her life is totally devoted for the happiness of her children. Even if, after the marriage of her children, her love remain intact. When her children get old, she still loves them although she became too old.
Now-a-days, after marriage many children give less importance to their mother due to their own family like having wife and kids. They say, it is alright that my mother has done her duty and now I have to look after my own wife and kids. One can find this sentiment that is reflected in many married persons. If the mother dies now, they get accustomed to loss of mother as now they have wife and kids.
But, the importance of a mother for an unmarried son/daughter can not be comparable with anybody. The lifelong unmarried son/daughters always find solace in their mother’s love and affection. They find mother as the true companion in their life path who understands very well them. Therefore, their life moves around their mother’s world.
But suddenly when the mother passes away, it creates a deep vacuum in their life. They may have everything starting from wealth to status but they aspire for their mother’s unconditional love. They feel lonely as nobody can fill the void of their mother’s place. They can not share their sorrow, sufferings, and feelings to anybody who can be like their mother. The loss of mother can be only understood by a person who really nurtures her life around his/her mother’s space.
Hence, one can recover any loss in life but one can not recover the loss of a mother. Mother is so precious, so valuable and untouchable person in life, once she passes away can never be recoverable. In every moment you can feel her absence, you can feel her requirement, you can need her hand to walk on the life path which can not be smooth again once you loss your mother. She is like water in the well and if there is no water, a well does not have any value.
