In this earth everybody get pain in his/her life irrespective of human being/animal. We do not know what the time will be in the next moment. We do not know what will be the situation in the next moment. Like happiness, pain is part of our life. We can not avoid it. Yes, when one will suffer in pain, how much he/she will suffer or what type of pain he/she will suffer is unpredictable. Pain always comes to anybody’s life without any information. Just like a bull on road suddenly rushes to you without any cause, pain intrudes to our life according to its own way. If it is going to happen in one’s life, no one can restrict that. It is the nature’s order. We have to face it when it enters in our life. Some may say that if we take precautions then pain may not get chance to touch us. But, it can not be true for everybody because pain has no dimensions which can be measured by anybody. No one can challenge that he/she will not get pain in his life time because destiny is not in our hand. Almighty or some super power is there who controls our activity. We can not deny it. Pain is inevitable.
Now, the fact is how to overcome the pain? As it is the part of life, we can not deny it. All the people do not have same strength in mind to tackle the pain. Also all the pain are not same alike. We have seen with due to occurrence of a little pain many people get heart broken, their life get devastated. They find it very difficult to bear the pain. Some get mad; some even finish their life to get rid of pain. One recent incident I am narrating here.
Some time ago, one very young son of a family died in road accident. The family members find it too difficult to bear the pain as suddenly their loving one died. So in the next day, his mother, three sisters and one elder brother consumed phenyl to end their life. They died in hospital. Everybody get stunned to hear this. All the family members were closely bonded with each other and when they suddenly lost their loved one, they wanted to end their life to get rid of pain. This is one incident, there are ample cases of sad incidents of many people who have come across terrible pain in their life path.
Then what should we do to get rid of their pain. As we are social animals, we should think about others also. Now, the question is how many persons take part to reduce the pain of others? The answer is very few. It is seen when people are in happy moments, many people share the happiness with them. They pretends as if they are very close to them but the same people do not share the pain when that person suffers from any sad incidents occurred in their life. They come to him/her in the sad moments and go away very early. They console but the deepness of pain sharing does not exist there. In turn, the grieved person’s life becomes more miserable. He/she finds it too difficult to reduce the pain. They want to end their life. Of course all people are not like that. But if we see the ratio, more people share the happiness but less people share the pain.
According to me, we should try to share the pain of people around us. It is not possible to help all but we should try to help as much as possible. In my life, I share the pain of others whom I come across in my life. I always prefer to share the sorrowness rather than happiness because in happy moments one can find many people to share but in pain one can not find that much. I try to share the pain as if I am suffering the same pain. One can not measure the deepness of. Always a suffered person wants pain sharing persons to reduce his/her pain otherwise he/she feels more lonely. People do not want to share pain as they say it is not our duty. Some says pain will come and go, so what can we do. But as a true human being, if we are able to share the pain of suffering people, then the true humanity blossom there. Who knows, the same pain may occur in our life in one day. What is the guarantee that our close people will share the pain at that moment! Yes, the pain is always personal. We can not take the pain of others totally but we can reduce the pain of those sad persons so that they will not feel lonely. Then they will try to overcome the pain in their life although pain can not be substituted once again with the happiness. I have suffered a lot of pain in my life but overcome the pain with my strong mental ability. But it is not possible by all. Pain is pain, one can not fake it. If all the people try to share the pain of any suffering people, then it will be mankind to human family. Also the noble work of pain sharing will give inner happiness to him/her. Let’s try to share the pain of others.
