Whenever we face any trouble in life, we get pain. The intensity of the pain depends on the type of troubles one face. The reflection of troubles is felt through pain. Pain is never visible. One can only feel in his heart what is the depth and magnitude of pain. Pain can be less or high, it may be bearable or unbearable but you should not showcase your pain. When you try to show case your pain you get more pain in turn. Let’s discuss should we tell our pain matters to others or not.
People in this world are not all same types. In this materialistic world most of the people are self-centric. They can be with you if there is happiness but very less people will share with your troubles and pain. Because, one does not let his heart go into deep in the happiness. Nobody wants to make their heart heavy by sharing the pain of others. You may find many of many people in your happiness but when your heart is full of pain, you will find it too difficult to get people who can come forward to understand your pain at least. Sharing pain is far away.
The irony in our life is that we are social beings. Always we want to let our surroundings should be with us in our happiness and pain. But in happiness you find enough people to join with you but when your heart is full of pain, if you want to tell the pain to others you will not get people who can feel the intensity of your pain.
In practical, I have seen, when you try to convey that due to certain troubles you are getting immense pain, people will not bother. There are some people who will pretend to know about your cause of pain but actually they act as if they are really your pain healers.
Another category of people are there, who will laugh at you. They put comments that it is usual to get pain in life when you face any trouble. What is fuss about it! You should adjust how to cope with your pain.
But there are very few people, who actually possess noble heart. They know what a pain is! Because in their life they have faced some troubles and they were accustomed to know the intensity of pain. They know how much it is difficult to bear the pain. Therefore they try their level best to be associated with you. They do not fake their feelings rather they try to make comfort how to come over the pain. You may be rich or you may be poor but pain is pain for all. Hence, those Samaritan people display their close understanding temperament so that you will feel that actually you are not alone. Those people are with you and they understand your pain truly. It will definitely give you a positive nod to overcome about your unendurable pain. But to get these noble heart people at the time of your pain is not very easy. It is very much difficult to get those types of people at the need of hour. Where maximum are self-centric and not intended to understand the heart of people who suffer due to pain how can you expect that you will get those people with you!
Therefore, it is better you should keep your pain within yourself. Because when you will tell your pain to others and they do not care about your suffering, your pain will be doubled. In your front or back they will criticize, they may take your pain in lightly. Sometimes you will feel by telling your sufferings to them, they make more mockery with your heart. Therefore, try to learn not to tell your pain to others until you are convinced that you have got someone who can understands your pain actually. But it is very difficult to that type of good human being at your suffering time. It is better you console within yourself and tell to supreme soul to provide you courage, patience and pain bearing capacity so that you will overcome about your pain. Never share your pain with those people who do not have interest to understand about your sufferings and pain. It is true always in this life do not let your pain to know by others who can multiplies your pain by showing inhuman attitudes towards you.
